När jag var ungefär 18 år så lärde jag älska mig själv, jag hade en person som älskade mig mycket. En person som jag har mycket att tacka för. Men att simma mot stömmen , det vet vi ju mycket väl att det är lite jobbigare.
- Sminka mig och lägga allt för mycket tid på mitt utseende!
- Röka, ta droger eller dricka alkohol
- Sociala tillställningar
- Visa hud inför andra människor - klä mig sexigt!
För jag kan inte vara den första som märkt att mäns hud är mycket mjukare , finare och kolla bara deras fötter hur lena de är. Varför? Jo för de inte smörjer in sig och sminkar sig!
Jag har ingen behov att gå i uringat eller kortklippta shorts , dock när jag skriver detta så hoppas ingen vill se mig i kortklippta shorts - fy vilken hemsk syn! Jag ska byta ut ordet visa hud till klä mig sexigt!
Det finns absolut riktigt varma dagar då jag har kortare klänning på mig eller korta shorts och linne - då jag utför en aktivitet som att cykla, träna , eller bara stå ut!
Vad är summan av kardemumman (svenskt ordspråk)
Det jag försöker få fram -snälla döm inte mig för att jag är osminkad, inte dricker alkhol, kanske bär en heltäckande klänning en het sommar dag. Ni väljer era val och jag väler mina val. Jag älskar mig själv men hur ska jag få er att tycka om mig, genom att bara vara mig själv?
The challenge is not really, to love myself. The challenge is to make others love me!
When I was about 18 years old, I learned to love myself, I had a person who loved me very much. A person who teach me alot. But swimming against the tide, we know very well that it is a bit more difficult.
I'm going to make a list that I don't like to make as laughable riddles against the tide:
Applying make-up and spending far too much time on my appearance!
Smoking, taking drugs or drinking alcohol
Social events
Show skin in front of other people - dress sexy!
Imagine being in a social context where you meet new people and they say all of a sudden or maybe quite so obviously. Shall we have a drink? Move us to the bar? And you say, no thanks I don't drink or you order a coca-cola! Some will raise their eyebrows, but rest assured, the question or comment will come. "Don't you drink", "Yes, you are the driver tonight" or congratulations - and the pointing to the stomach!
I forgot to say that I'm also fat and get that nice pregnant belly without being pregnant, so I've been pregnant x number of times if others can decide the reason why I refused alcohol. Yes, you get the point!
Then that I don't wear make-up every day, because here I can't say I never wear make-up but wish I stopped completely! However, there are days I find it difficult to go out without mascara and a little powder and can add blush. Because it's not ugly with make-up, I don't think so. There are times when I look at women in really nice make-up and I think I can be really cute in make-up. But because I'm someone who wears make-up from time to time, I notice how bad make-up is for our skin. As much as skin products are for our skin.
Because I can't be the first to notice that men's skin is much softer, finer and just look at their feet how smooth they are. Why? Yes, because they don't lubricate themselves and put on make-up!
Then there are days when I lubricate my absolute, when the body is dry - then I help it on the trot.
Show skin!
I have no need to wear unlined or short shorts, but when I write this I hope no one wants to see me in short shorts - what a horrible sight! I'm going to change the word show skin to dress sexy!
There are definitely really hot days when I'm wearing a shorter dress or short shorts and tank top - when I'm doing an activity like cycling, exercising, or just standing!
I simply mean that incredible longing and confirmation to dress sexy to get loads of compliments from people - I get that already dressed up and decently covered! Yuk!
What is the sum of the cardamom (Swedish proverb)
I'm not writing this because I'm judging others for how they live their lives, then maybe I'm picking out people who, from my point of view, drink too much alcohol or smoke. They murderously choose me too - logically!
What I'm trying to get across - please don't judge me for wearing no make-up, not drinking alcohol, maybe wearing an all-over dress on a hot summer day. You choose your choices and I choose mine. I love myself but how can I make you like me by just being me?
Everyone says that: if you love yourself, others will love you... it doesn't seem to work that easily. I love myself except for certain periods. Even as a little girl and I was bullied, I loved myself. Well, I thought I was mature as I was, quiet, obsequious, calm and let the girls say rude things...while I was enjoying myself!
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